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Nothing To Talk About In One on Ones

management, software development

I’m into the second week of holding half hour one-on-one sessions with all of my folks. Today is my big day on Wednesday afternoon where I actually hold six one-on-ones from 1:00-4:00. At least half of the one-on-ones today began with the statement:

“Hmm, I really don’t have anything to talk about this time, so I don’t know what we’re going to talk about for half an hour.”

Every one of those one-on-one sessions today went the full 30 minutes and a few I had to cut off to make time for the next session. I distinctly remember this because my bladder was letting me know it could use a little restroom break, but from 1-4 today it was wall to wall one-on-ones.

This week felt a bit more laid back. People are starting to get adjusted to the style and I’m probably a bit more relaxed. So I’m beginning to see why I should have started these a long time ago.

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Ed Gibbs @ February 15, 2006

5 Comments

  1. Jason Waring February 16, 2006 @ 2:58 am

    What a great and informative website.

    I first heard about manager-tools from your website, and have just this week started one-on-ones. The first was longer (as expected), but very worthwhile.

    Cheers Ed.

    Jason

  2. Ed Gibbs February 16, 2006 @ 6:06 am

    Thanks for the positive feedback, and I’m glad I could point someone else to Manager Tools. I’m still amazed how detail oriented all of their advice and stories are.

  3. Victor Szalvay February 17, 2006 @ 10:18 pm

    Great stuff Ed,

    I’m glad you’re trying one-on-ones. I always mean to but… you know how it goes… I’m very curious to hear how things turn out for you. I need to commit to doing these myself.

    – Victor

  4. Ed Gibbs March 2, 2006 @ 8:37 pm

    I need to follow up with how they’re going. Today coming out of a one-on-one I got commitments from three developers to start up a patterns study group. This probably would have just stayed an idea without the one-on-ones in place.

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